Transgender Rudra; Physically used by own uncle

Transgender Rudra; Physically used by own uncle

Transgender Rudra – The trans community is a group that experiences oppression and neglect in society. A community that is not accepted by others.

But today it has changed a lot. At least half of the people in our society today are of the opinion that transgenders should come to the forefront.There are many trans people in our society who have reached the forefront through their own efforts.A Kottayam woman named Rudra Aneesh has such a personality.

A look back at Rudra’s past life…   Rudra suffered a lot in her childhood. Rudra’s family consists of father and mother. First he was a boy by birth. When she was three or four years old, her feminine nature started to emerge. At that time Rudra’s mother made Rudra study in a hostel.

Her education was there. Then when Rudra started showing her feminine nature, everyone started isolating Rudra. When she went to play with his friends as a child, Rudra was isolated by his friends.When she ask why they don’t allow her to play with them, her friends ask, ‘How can they play with you, who is neither male nor female?’ She used to go home worried.

It was her valiyamma who supported her even when everyone isolated her. Valiyamma buy earrings, bracelets and necklaces to her.It was at the age of 18-19 that her feminine nature began to emerge. Rudra says that at that time she fell in love with someone. It was the person with whom Tanta was studying. But he loved Rudra as a friend. But Rudra tells him that she wants to marry him.

The school and family members all knew about that incident. So we didn’t see each other anymore. He did not go to school after that. Rudra said that after that incident she hated everyone terribly, she hated men very much at that time .

It was his own uncle who made him do that when he was young and used him physically in a very bad way. After that, Rudra says that he felt physically ill. But Rudra says that she could not tell his family that day and after harassing him, he threatened to kill him if he told this matter at home. Two days later, Valiamma saw the wound caused when he slapped him on the face and sought information and went to Rudra’s uncle’s house to create a problem. Rudra said. Rudra says that at that time he was facing a lot of physical difficulties, his body was aching and he felt tired. The family came to know about the matter because Valiamma had caused the problem. Thus, Rudra’s mother also went to his house to create the problem and beat him.

Because of failed in 10th class, Rudra did not go to study and went to work. Rudra said that her father would still cause problems in the house and he used to come drunk and harass her and mother, so he moved out of the house. After moving out of the house, she looked for work as a home nurse. At that time an auto driver fell in love with Rudra and he proposed marriage. But Rudra refused. Rudra also told him that she hated men.

Rudra says that after that she got along well with the people in the office and the woman inside came out well. After that marriage took place with a person named Anish. Rudra says that those who were kept her away from the society started to respect and he also respects them.

Now she is in good relationship with everyone.Now she has a life partner. Now it is decided to live together till the end of life. Rudra’s life partner’s name is Aneesh. The marriage of both of them is not accepted in Aneesh’s house.When Rudra left home, she found money for expenses by going to work and performing dances. When she left home, he was hungry for 4 months. She was sleeping in the veranda of the shop. She got India’s first transgender identity card. Rudra said when she got it, she got a lot of courage.